It too much to handle, whatever it may be – death threats, mockery, disadvantages, fucktards, idiocy and unsolvable moral or other issues then direct them towards me and forget about it. Paint as unfavorable a picture of me as you have to if need be. Do whatever you can to make me the center of attention. I’ll take it.
Edit: But of course, you the giver of burden have to be innocent or else I cannot trust your information. You’ll be blocking the causal chain.